Getting married is usually stressful at some point during the planning process (if not most of it!) so planning a wedding overseas if you don´t speak the language can be pretty terrifying and off putting. Where do you start, who to contact etc.. Personally I believe that getting a local wedding planner, one that speaks the local language, is key to a less stressful event. I´m not saying that without a wedding planner the wedding will be awful because it won´t, a planner (if he/she is a good one) will be your eyes and ears and this in itself will make the planning and wedding day much easier. With or without a planner, I would always advise you to research everything. Contact venues and suppliers and ask for testimonials. Gather as much info as you can before you make your choices and it will pay off.
Without sounding mean and disrespectful to the couple involved, I want to share an example of a wedding a friend of mine attended here a couple of weeks ago and highlight the importance of local knowledge and organisation.
Ok, so it goes like this. On a viewing trip that the bride and groom organised themselves they fell in love with a venue but it was way out of their price range for the whole wedding day so they decided on solely having their blessing ceremony there and the welcome cocktails and reception were held elsewhere. This in itself is not uncommon nor a bad idea as budget is always important. But the time of day they chose was not good. They had their ceremony at 4pm in June and the heat was unbearable. There was no shade at the outdoor venue and the guests ended up huddled under the only available tree in the area and did not get to see or hear the ceremony properly as they were so far away. If the couple had realised how hot it is in the summer here I´m sure they would have provided fans or parasols or something for their guests but it´s very hard to envisage how incredibly hot it can be when enduring the freezing weather most people suffer in the UK or Ireland for example.
Next hiccup...the journey to the reception venue for welcome cocktails, meal, dancing etc. When the bride and groom were on their viewing trip over a year before the wedding they hired a car to travel about and the distance between the ceremony and reception venues was only about 15 minutes in the car. Fabulous they thought. They organised coaches for the guests to be collected from the ceremony and brought to the reception which was a great idea. However they didn´t know about the long term roadworks that had started and would leave their dehydrating guests in horrendous traffic for nearly an hour. By the time the guests arrived they were hot and bothered and not really in the mood to celebrate.
There were a couple of other hiccups like the flowers for the centrepieces being the wrong colour (the bride hadn´t quite understood the Spanish florist) but I don´t want to scare anyone or totally criticise someone´s wedding, I just want to simply say that no matter how you approach your dream wedding in the sun, good old fashioned organisation and research is critical.